2/3/2012 2:00:19 PM
K is an 18 year old woman who wants to marry a rock star. Her mother says she must marry a rich man, and a rock star is ok. K doesn't so much care about the money as she does the rock. She says she's going to be a superstar after she graduates from college, so she knows she will meet them and she promises to love them for their rock and not their money. She asks if it's ok to be with an old rock star? What say you to all of this?
2/1/2012 6:00:52 AM
Issy is 24 and a mother of a 3 year old boy. The father and she have an off again, on again relationship and right now it's off. She was irritated and thinking about his past indiscretions and didn't want sex, so he started dating a new woman. He says he'll be back in time, but not now, she'll just have to wait for him. She's devastated and wants to know what she can do to win him back. Is this the right question?
1/31/2012 2:00:21 PM
Adarius and his girlfriend were together almost 4 years when she broke it off, saying she wanted to be alone. After they broke up she was almost instantly in the arms of another man. Now, Adarius can't eat or sleep he's so miserable. Did she lie to him and this was all a plan or was it just happenstance?
1/30/2012 10:00:17 PM
Deb was in and out of a relationship until her boyfriend finally split up with her. Then she started seeing one of his friends, who became very angry when they all went out one night and she spoke to her ex. When they got home he tore the house up, even threw her clothes out to the curb. She ended it, and now wonders if she did the right thing with only that one episode. Do you think this was a one time thing or a preview of things to come?
1/29/2012 6:00:16 AM
Saamiya has been having a love affair with a married man for five years. She knows he's bad; she knows he's a cheat; she knows he hurts her; she knows, she knows, she knows - and yet she cannot leave or forget him. Has this happened to you? How do you let someone go who you love yet know is so bad for you?
1/27/2012 2:00:05 PM
Lori has been married for 8 years, but the last two she hasn't taken very good care of herself, and has gained weight. They've gone 9 months without sex, which was not her choice. Then she discovered the nude photos of her husband on his cell, along with photos of men and women, also nude. They were taken on her birthday, and two days after their anniversary which they did not celebrate. She asked what she could do to make things right, and he said get back to her pre-married weight. She's trying, but it's going to take a while. Is there hope for this marriage?
1/27/2012 6:00:35 AM
Laquaenta and her boyfriend have been together for four years and have a 10 month old baby. She complained to an old male friend that she doesn't like it that he screams and calls her names whenever he gets mad, and now her boyfriend wants to kick her and the baby out of the house. She loves him and has nowhere to go. She needs advice; do you have something to tell her?
1/25/2012 10:00:25 PM
Aaron, 40, is a stay at home dad because of a medical problem and the economy. When his wife would get home from work, he'd socialize online. When she tried to talk to him, all he heard was nag, nag, nag. Now she has had an affair, and has lied about it repeatedly. Finally coming clean she says it's over, but he doesn't trust her. What would you tell this concerned father of 12 and 4 year old boys?
1/25/2012 2:00:15 PM
H lives with her boyfriend, and while going through a rough period, she confided in a male friend and ended up kissing him. Realizing how much she loves her boyfriend, she now understands their problems were no big deal and they are getting along very well now. BUT it's now months later and she is riddled with the guilt of kissing someone else. If she tells him, she's almost sure he will leave. She asks should she tell him or, if not, how can she live with the terrible guilt? What say you?
1/24/2012 6:00:29 AM
Janice has been married 14 years, during which time she and her husband tried desperately to conceive with no luck. Now she finds she's pregnant, but she also discovered at the same time that her husband was having an affair with her friend! She's stressed and confused and doesn't know what to do. Advice?
1/23/2012 2:00:27 PM
Catie fell in love with an English student in high school, but after graduation they parted ways. Attending a retreat, the two saw each other and reconnected, and all those feelings returned. They decided a long distance relationship was not for them, but she has a pain that will not go away. It's going to be 3 months before she sees him again, and she can't take it anymore. What should she do?
1/22/2012 6:00:18 AM
Colleen, late 40's, casually dated a man for four years. During this time she had three miscarriages and they repeatedly visited 'Splitsville'. She recently found out he was seeing another woman for a year, while they were dating. Texting him she got no response, so she called the other woman, and told her everything about her guy. But she's not feeling closure, and wonders if the other woman ended the relationship. Just how important is 'closure' anyway?
1/21/2012 2:00:19 PM
Dee has been with his girlfriend for a little over a year, and it's been great. Even though neither of them are ready to get married, he asked her about marriage, and it didn't go over very well. The next day he brought it up again, telling her she acted like she didn't care. She broke down, said she cared, and if things continued well that maybe one day marriage could be in their plans. However, things are not the same between them, and he's afraid to lose her. What should he do now?
1/20/2012 6:00:51 AM
Sophie has been with her boyfriend for a year and a half, with two breakups. One breakup was when he disappeared for several weeks. Now he claimed to have trouble with his visa, and he has disappeared again. Is this a healthy relationship when one disappears for weeks without telling the significant other why and having zero contact during that time? Does she believe him, accept this and try to make it work?
1/19/2012 2:00:12 PM
Harry is 23 and is dating a woman he loves. He feels amazing around her, but then she left for a year on a compulsory trip abroad. When he went to visit her, she mentioned the passion was leaving their relationship. Then she said he needed to be more of a leader in bed, and now that's all he thinks about when trying to make love to her, which affects his performance to the point of impotence. It has caused enough unhappiness that they have almost broken up. Suggestions?
1/17/2012 10:00:18 PM
Anna has been in a five year relationship with her guy unhappy with her for the last three. Make up, break up and even a recent marriage proposal, though first now wants to be a 'free agent' to do whatever he wants for awhile. Also, she has changed significantly for him, but he claims to be perfect and won't change at all for her. Does she have a chance for a lasting marriage with this controlling Mr. Perfect? She's not sure she can leave him.
1/16/2012 2:00:17 PM
Lori has been married for a year and a half, and is upset and wonders if she's overreacting. Her husband is quite active on Facebook with women, while he ignores her- in fact he blocked her! He also emailed an ex and told her he still loved her, and told another that he missed her kisses and body. While on an outing, he asked a complete stranger for her number, but tells her that his co-worker firemen put him up to it. Now I ask you, is she overreacting?
1/15/2012 6:00:26 AM
Margie was married for two years when she discovered her husband was cheating on her with hookers, dominatrices and via Internet porn. She has a new man in her life now, but she doesn't want him to move in. She can see him once or twice a week, but then she wants to be left alone. She doesn't want to get married -- ever. She gets physically sick when she thinks of what her ex did to her. She cries herself to sleep and wakes up with night sweats and in a panic. Do you know how to help Margie?
1/14/2012 2:00:07 PM
Smitha has a problem. With so many choices of lovers, how does she choose one?
1/13/2012 6:00:08 AM
Mariana is from Brazil and a year and a half ago married an American man. She left him after she realized he was no longer into her. Now she's alone in America, with no family or friends. She feels all her energy is gone and life is meaningless. What would you advise her to do?
1/12/2012 2:00:54 PM
Anne has been married to her husband for 21 years, and found out he's been having an affair with an old high school girlfriend. She also found out he's frequented prostitutes and watches porn for hours each and every day. How? By putting spyware on his computer.She tried to make it work, but then she found out he's still seeing the high school girlfriend. Now he says it's over because his girlfreind dumped him, so he thinks that now he'll remain with her. Can this ever work? She says she cannot live without him.
1/11/2012 2:00:30 PM
Jesusita has been married for 6 years and separated for 4. She has been wanting a divorce, but every time she brings it up, he talks her out of it. He insists on talking to her on the phone and computer daily, and she's tired of it. She experienced both physical and emotional abuse, and just wants to get her life back. What would you suggest, stay or go?
1/10/2012 10:00:50 PM
Dodi comes from the Middle East, where the women are required to be virgins for their husbands. Yet, what happens now that she has slept with a man and is engaged to another man? She did not bleed the first time, and wants to know if because of that maybe she is still a virgin? AND she also wants to know if there's a way to restore her virginity? Can you offer words of wisdom for Dodi?
1/9/2012 6:00:18 AM
Tonnie is 24 and wants to get out of her 5 year relationship. She wants to be single, free and happy, yet when she tries her phone is ringing off the hook from her boyfriend. So, she changed the number, but still can't get free. Does she really want to get out of this relationship? Any advice on how to move on?
1/8/2012 2:00:49 PM
Ana found out her husband was forced to marry her by his mother, and he has been cheating on her their whole married life. He loves another and wants to be with his true love, but she wants him to stay. He's miserable, but she wants this marriage to make it and asks how she can make that happen. She will try anything. Advice?
