I'm Just Sayin...
What's More Important? College Football or Our Children's Safety?
11/10/2011 2:00:15 PM
Penn State, until recently, known for its football team and legendary coach, is now involved in a child sex scandal that will take years for it to recover from. There are a host of characters here who placed the reputation of the school over the safety of young kids. Ironically these key men who are icons to the university, may be the ones to bring down the reputation they misguidedly tried to protect.

Foremost is Joe Paterno, 84, the Penn State head coach for 46 years and the winningest coach in the history of college football. He is legendary, known for being squeaky clean and standing up for all that is right.

 He took pride that his players had great grades, a high graduation rate and had life goals beyond football. He was one of the "good guys” in a sport that is often considered semi-professional on so many other campuses.
 
The alleged perpetrator is Jerry Sandusky, 67.  Paterno's friend, a former player and the former defensive coordinator at the university. Sandusky is also a known figure within the community.

In 1977, he founded The Second Mile, a charitable foundation for troubled youth. It was through this organization that Sandusky chose his victims. They were poor and from broken homes, and he was supposedly a role model they looked up to.

In 2002, graduate assistant Mike McQueary allegedly witnessed the rape of a young boy by Sandusky. Shaken, the next day he told Paterno, who followed school protocol and went to his supervisor, Tim Curley, the athletic director who then discussed the incident with Gary Schultz, a university vice president. 

University president Graham Spanier was then informed, though how much was shared with him is not clear.  All of these men failed to report the alleged crime to police or to Child Protective Services. In light of the allegations, Curley and Schultz have just been charged with perjury and failing to report a crime (against a 10 year old, no less), and calls for Spanier’s resignation are now rampant.
 
So far, nine boys or men have come forward, implicating Sandusky, but authorities are bracing themselves for more to come. It is known that troubled youths are the easiest for a predator to victimize.

It is now alleged that Sandusky used his position and his charity to lure young boys to not only the football lockers and showers, but also his home, in order to rape and sodomize them, and that he's been doing this for years.
 
It is a known fact that child sex abusers often work with kids. It's not the stranger with the trench coat and hat that's pulled down, lurking at the playground. No, the majority of sexual abuse victims know the perpetrator and this is often a family member, camp counselor, coach or some other respected figure in the child’s life. 

In this case, Sandusky  had the pick of the litter, because if someone talked, who would the public believe -- some kid who came from nowhere or an upstanding professional who gave his time and was in good standing with the community? It was a slam dunk.
 
Even though, if the allegations are true, Sandusky should be placed under the jail, what about the school officials who knew what was going on, and yet turned their back? There were eye witnesses and the mother of one of the victims filed a report with police when her son told her what happened -- and yet nothing at all was done. 

This was Jerry Sandusky, after all! They weren't going to waste their time and money investigating the rants of some kid or his mom.
 
As of Monday morning, Jerry Sandusky's name was still on The Second Mile's website. Tuesday it was removed. Wednesday Joe Paterno was fired along with President Graham Spainer. What a difference a day makes. This prototypical college town has been turned upside down and the initial shock is now rapidly turning to anger as more details emerge.  
 
The mother of Victim Six says, "I'm so upset. My son is extremely distraught, and now to see how we were betrayed, words cannot tell you. To see that Graham Spanier is putting his unconditional support behind Curley and Shultz when he should be putting his support behind the victims, it just makes them victims all over again."
 
I ask you, if you had witnessed something as disturbing as the rape of a 10 year old boy, or heard about it, or were in the position of authority over an alleged perpetrator, what would you do? Do you even have to think about it? 

Joe Paterno often said these words to his players: "Do the right thing, because it's the right thing to do." What he should have been saying was, "Actions speak louder than words.”
Dr. Archer
 

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14 Comments
11/10/2011 3:59:35 PM
It leads to what you have elsewhere stated 'Powerful People Think The Rules Don't Apply To Them'. Someone who teaches about morality, if he practices the opposite, it only proves one thing: He was never honest. He was a devil in disguise. Maybe we are too weak to punish someone on this earth, but God can see it all. Devil chooses some people to be his instrument, and when he chooses powerful people of a high esteem, well, he is doing a fantastic job in that case. It happens in so many areas. All we can do, is turn our back, be disgusted and ask ourselves: Is there ANYTHING we can do? There is. Talking about it, condemning it… And sometimes the news is so bad, that I prefer to refuse to believe it. I say ‘but are you sure, is this what happened? Maybe it was a lie’. But no, it’s not a lie. It’s in the news and it has been proven. Then I switch the tv off, and try to eliminate my thoughts from going there again. And I will mumble one more time ‘no, it can’t be true’ and I’ll go to bed with this thought, so at least I can sleep like an angel. After all, we have to think of ourselves too and preserve our happiness.
11/10/2011 5:56:09 PM
They all covered it up. I think there's an even more heightened coda of covering for each other in sports as there is in the military. It's wrong, and it's always been wrong. Although ignorance of the law is no excuse and it was mandatory that they contact police, not just report to their superiors, I'm not sure those who didn't themselves witness it but did pass the information up the chain are quite as complicit as the one at the top who then decided to bury it. But I think it's important they make a point of prosecuting all of them for it because this crap has to stop. No, I can't imagine not just getting on the phone immediately and calling police if one walked upon that, not to mention why didn't they jump on the guy? This is athletes, for Chrissake! They should have jumped on the guy and gotten the kid away from him and called the police. I could understand if the guy who witnessed it reported it to his superior (even though law says to call police) and then assumed it was being investigated and handled, but I really don't understand how this story wasn't all over the place in the meantime. I mean, did the guy who saw it just keep his mouth closed and never tell his wife or friends what he saw? Good grief.
DDA
11/11/2011 3:58:27 PM
It takes a lifetime to build a reputation and a day to shatter it. And yes, Marcia, I agree sometimes it’s just too hard to think about it.
DDA
11/11/2011 3:59:04 PM
It is unbelievable, isn't it, Lola? So many knew, and so many knew he had an eye for little boys, yet NO ONE bothered to call police. What a shame; what a crime.
11/11/2011 5:18:05 PM
Also, sometimes, people love their chair and status much more than honesty and morality. So they prefer to keep quite, rather than do the right thing to expose their boss. It has become a great bravery nowadays to dare to be moral. We see it every day, everywhere. People takes sides and sometimes it is easier to take the side of the powerful, no matter what he preaches, or what crime he committed. It takes guts to be upfront and honest. Only few special people have got them. You are one of those brave ones Dr. Archer, also for discussing it here, openly. And you are never afraid to say the right thing!
DDA
11/16/2011 7:31:36 PM
Thanks, Marcia.
11/17/2011 3:14:14 PM
I agree with Lola, why did they allow themselves the chance to witness it? Why didn't they stop it?? This makes me particlarly angry, there's nothing that sickens, angers, frustrates and outright enrages me the way that sexual abuse and the abuse of power toward children/minors does.

You are absolutely right Dr Archer, these sick monsters place themselves in positions of access to and power over children and sometimes naive parents and. like a wild animal, they have a keen sense for the vulnerable in the community. It's the adults that turn a blind eye and continue to support and praise the perpertrator during their careers of continuous, callous, systematic abuse that really enfuriates me. It's devastatingly difficult for a young person to cope after such violation - not to mention the physical pain and lasting damage - but imagine having to constantly hear what a great person this abuser is by everyone in the community on a daily basis! No-one should have to go through this or have to deal with it, we normal adults need to be responsible and protect ALL children in our homes and communities. I could not feel any stronger about this, really.
11/19/2011 12:38:05 AM
DDA,
It is very sad that whole situation, Thousands of students are affected from that University. What I don't understand is how no one even thought to exhaust their resources, Law enforcement doesn't just stop at the police department, there is the FBI which deals with interstate crimes and moves crimes up to the federal level. No one even bothered to write their congressman, If they did they need to speak up now. LoLa the code of covering as far as the military goes, because the military has the Uniform Code of Military Justice they don't fall under the same justice system we do unless service members are off base, If they are stationed overseas and get into trouble off base, they fall under that country's jurisdiction. I know all too well after being active duty for almost 13 years. I have learned a lot, and if it wasn't for my parent's writing a letter to our congressman, I would have been punished under Article 15, of the UCMJ which basically is worse than having a criminal record. I was discriminated against by roommate, her superviser's, the first Sergeant, My commander, and the end result was my commander was forced to retire early, A colonel in the Air Force. That's what is truly unfair about the UCMJ, it protects the officers who are able to retain their retirement but the enlisted are always dishonorably discharged with nothing if you are a E5 or E6 or below. I ended up with a suspended article 15, basically the equivilent to a misdemeanor and fine, along with rank reduction.
Then there is my Best Friend Luanne Elias, We were best friends over in the Azores for 2 years and when she left for Los Angeles Air Station, Ca and i got stationed out at March AFB, Ca in Riverside we didnt see so much of each other. I knew her for 7 years, we both worked in the Communications message centers, and held the highest security clearance you could get in the military Top Secret SCI which covered intelligence information. She came to visit me in the later half of 1988, when she left the next day, my whole wallet was missing with my military ID, 4 checks left in my checkbook, credit cards etc etc etc.. She went down to my bank cleaned out my bank account, went to Edwards AFB, and a few other military bases and cashed the checks i reported to my bank. She was traveling all over the military installations, cashing checks from other military members so it wasn't just me. I was so furious with my bank. She altered my military id by swapping out my picture with hers. Filed the affidavits at the bank, filed the police report in Riverside. She even rented a apartment over in Long Beach, Ca in my name, applied for loans etc etc etc.. She just went on a Wild Crime Spree, that reminds me of Thelma in Thelma and Louise. I get notified by a Capt from Navy Intelligence from San Diego, He drove up too talk to me about Luanne, and this is when i found out about the rest of what she had done. She had been stealing checks out of the mailbox of military members, cashed over 10,000 dollars in checks in the few months she was loose. She was Caught on El Toro Marine Base in a stolen 88 Cadillac, fighting and kicking when they removed her from the vehicle. She had been discharged under Article 15 for drug use right before she went on her spree. Now here is the real kicker about the Military coda that LoLa talks about. They released her to the Sheriff's department in Orange County, California, she was sentenced to 30 days in jail and forced to leave the state. How is that justice when the federal government didn't prosecute her, especially for the security clearance she held for all we know she was selling secrets. Im sure they wouldn't let that go now if someone tried that now since Terrorists are out there. I just don't understand Logic when it comes to federal prosecution under the UCMJ.
11/19/2011 4:22:42 PM
God loves and protects brave people, because He is truth... I remember David's Psalms 'put your hopes and beliefs in Him and God will never embarrass you'.
DDA
11/21/2011 10:14:05 PM
I thought about the victims too, Natasha, upon hearing all the praise lavished upon the men in question. As well as watching the riot on television, with thousands of students yelling "We want Joe!" They all need a course in ethics.
12/1/2011 12:08:35 AM
Yes, couldn't agree more. I don't care if he was the biggest charity giver or multiple noble peace prize winner or the the all round 'greatest guy' in the world, there is NO reason or excuse to defend somebody that has committed such acts - or been accused of, with multiple counts of substantial evidence and eyewitness testimony.

At the end of the day what are we doing? Trading our children's safety and well being for the perpetrators other 'accomplishments'?? Be ashamed people, hang your heads. Nothing is worthy of a trade off of that kind or magnitude. SHAME.
2/17/2012 5:57:18 PM
Thanks for sharing. I can't express how much I love commercial playground equipment. Its so nice to know my children have a nice, clean, and safe to play. I love taking them to the park and watching their faces light up on the swings. It just makes me so happy for them.
DDA
2/22/2012 3:16:11 AM
Glad to hear it. Getting out like that is great for children
3/19/2012 4:32:30 PM
I love being able to take my kids to the commercial playgrounds near my home, but I don't let them go alone anymore for this exact purpose. There are too many people out there praying on kids that aren't supervised. Do we know why they didn't report the crime? Thanks for keeping us informed, and hopefully more parents read this and learn to care about their child's safety.
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